We’ve all heard it. God gave us two ears and one mouth…so we should listen twice as much as we speak.
As cute and “quippy” as it may sound, it’s true. That was no accidental facial feature application. God does, after all, have a delightful sense of humor!
And yet, at the rate I yip and yap, and the rarity with which I truly listen…you would think my face had it backward.
I need constant reminders.
To hold my tongue. To filter my thoughts before they bubble unabashedly to the surface. To speak only things that encourage and edify. And to be still long enough to hear another’s heart.
Be still and know. A command we struggle constantly with.
Oh, it is so very hard for me. Especially as a SAHM with wee ones. It is so easy for me to talk at them {too often, in a less than pleasant tone} and not take the time to get down on their level and connect with their little hearts. And that is, after all…when it’s all said and done…what really matters, isn’t it?
In an effort to remedy this in my life, I decided to plaster this scripture up where I would see it numerous times a day. At my kitchen sink.
It’s powerful. It’s simple. It’s relationship-changing.
“Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires.”
James 1:19-20
Go ahead. Print it out too. And think on these things with me. They might just change our lives.
Are you going to memorize this verse with me this week? If so, add your link:
By Joy McMillan, Simply Bloom
Joy, I deeply connect with this post. This is the very area God is working with me on – and go figure, it is my iPad background too (this very scripture).
Coming from a home where I was taught obedience and behavioral correction, it’s a daily challenge to walk in this new heart He has given to me (the one He truly created). My nature wants to overcome my heart, but I am always now reminding myself…God before anger-filled words and tones. Anger is an emotion we have – no doubt, but we are to not sin in it; and oh how my heart aches when I do concerning my son.
This is a wonderful reminder, and one I needed today – as I do everyday – to keep my mind, heart and mouth in check…opening my ear gates (and heart gates) a little more.
Thank you, Marni! Love how God uses our brokenness and the ugliness of our sin to shake and shape and redefine us…and encourage others! So thankful for his lavish grace and new mercies! And for the beautiful work he continues to do in your life.