The Most Important Thing


If I teach my children to speak Spanish, French, Latin, Greek, and Japanese, but do not teach them to love God, I have nothing.

If they know how to tell time and have their times tables memorized, but do not know the God of time and all eternity, it profits me nothing.

If I teach them all about psychology, sociology, anthropology, and philosophy, but they do not love the LORD their God with all their heart, soul, mind, and strength, I have gained nothing.

If they are well versed in William Shakespeare, Emily Dickinson, Ralph Waldo Emerson, and Edgar Alan Poe, but do not delight in the Law of the LORD, their learning has come to nothing.

If they know about George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Benjamin Franklin, and Abraham Lincoln, but do not know Jesus Christ as their Savior and LORD, their knowledge is meaningless.

If they are champions at spelling bees, get perfect scores on their SATs, and get accepted into the best universities, but reject their Creator, I have accomplished nothing.

If they are successful beyond my wildest dreams, if they have huge paychecks, giant houses, and lavish lifestyles; If they gain the whole world, and yet lose their souls, I am an utter failure.

So now I see that reading, writing, and arithmetic are important, literature, languages, and history are all valuable, science and social studies have their place,

but if I my children do not become fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ, I have merely educated them.

I must do more than educate them…I must disciple them.

I must teach them to love the LORD.

“Teacher, what is the greatest commandment in the law?”

And He said to him, “‘YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND.’

This is the great and foremost commandment.

The second is like it,

‘YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.’

On these two commandments depend the whole law and the prophets.”

Matthew 22:36-40 NASB

Tiana is blessed to be wife to Christopher and mother to three young children, plus one more being knit together in secret. She has a bachelor’s degree in Youth Ministry from Moody Bible Institute in Chicago, IL, which she now “uses” as she brings up her children in the nurture and admonition of the LORD, through home education and discipleship. With God’s help, she is learning more about what it means to be a godly wife, mother, and homemaker each day. She lives in Wisconsin, but you can visit her on the web at God Made, Home Grown.

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12 Responses to The Most Important Thing
  1. Sabrina Reinhart
    October 8, 2010 | 12:41 am

    Thank you for this timely message. I have been struggling lately as we’re getting ready for another move and we’ll have almost 4 months in transit from one location to another. I worried and worried about what to teach while on the go, without supplies and my regular teaching tools. This post made me realize that I can really use this time to focus in on God and our relationship to Him and our family’s relationship.
    Thank you,
    Sabrina

  2. Michelle
    October 8, 2010 | 5:19 am

    Love it…thank you for writing!

  3. Becky Perry
    October 8, 2010 | 6:06 am

    This was just incredible. I printed it and will put it in my schoolroom.

  4. Carrie
    October 8, 2010 | 8:06 am

    Thanks for re-centering my thoughts this morning! I think I’ll be printing this out, too! :)

  5. Julie Arduini
    October 8, 2010 | 8:12 am

    I’m printing this out and taping it where I’ll see it every day. This is perfect and true. Excellent post.

  6. Chris
    October 8, 2010 | 10:03 am

    great post.. great reminder!

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  8. Corine
    October 8, 2010 | 11:14 am

    I couldn’t agree with you more! A relationship with God is what matters most; all the rest are just added bonuses!

  9. Sherry
    October 8, 2010 | 11:57 am

    So true! All of that is nothing compared to knowing God! Thank you for posting!

  10. Heather @ Becoming A Titus 2 Woman
    October 9, 2010 | 9:12 am

    So true!! Thank you!

  11. Donna
    October 9, 2010 | 10:42 pm

    How true, how true, how true!!!

  12. Angelique
    October 12, 2010 | 12:49 pm

    Thats deep!! and so true…I love it!!!

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